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10 Questions to Ask Your Doctor After 65 | Senior Checkup Guide

by Dr. David Reis

Licensed Real Estate Salesperson
Cardiologist
eXp Referral Division NY & CT
Mobile: (203) 980-6811
e: david.reis@yourdoseofrealty.com

August 31, 2026

Healthy Aging · Your Annual Checkup

Here's something nobody tells you about getting older: your annual checkup gets a lot more important, but the appointment itself doesn't get any longer. You still get roughly 15 to 20 minutes, and in that window your doctor is trying to cover blood pressure, medications, screenings, and whatever concern brought you in that day.

That's exactly why walking in with a plan matters so much once you're past 65. Nearly one in three older adults in the U.S. sees five or more different doctors a year, and it's easy for something important to slip through the cracks between appointments. The good news is that a few well-timed questions can help you and your doctor catch problems early, before they turn into a hospital visit or a lost year of independence.

1 in 3
older adults in the U.S. sees five or more different doctors in a single year — which is exactly how important details get lost between visits.

Below are 10 questions worth bringing to every checkup after 65, along with the reasoning behind each one so you actually remember to ask.

10 Questions Worth Asking

1

"Are any of my medications no longer necessary?"

This is arguably the single most valuable question on this list. As your body changes with age, medications that once worked well can start causing dizziness, fatigue, weight loss, or confusion. Bring every prescription, over the counter medication, and supplement you take, in the actual bottles if possible, and ask your doctor to review the full list together. Sometimes a medication that was prescribed years ago for a problem that's since resolved is quietly still in your routine, doing more harm than good.

2

"What is my fall risk, and what can I do to lower it?"

Falls are one of the leading causes of injury and loss of independence for people over 65. Ask your doctor directly whether you're at elevated risk, and whether simple changes such as grab bars, better lighting, a different pair of shoes, or a physical therapy referral could help. This is also a good moment to mention if you've had any recent stumbles, even minor ones you brushed off.

3

"Should I be screened for memory or cognitive changes?"

Occasional forgetfulness is normal. But if you or people close to you have noticed patterns like repeating questions, getting lost in familiar places, or struggling to follow conversations, say so. A short in-office cognitive screening can help distinguish ordinary aging from something that deserves closer attention, and catching changes early often means more treatment options.

4

"Which health screenings am I due for?"

Screening schedules for things like colon cancer, bone density, vision, hearing, and certain blood tests shift as you age, and it's easy to lose track of what you last had done and when. Ask your doctor to walk through what's due now and what's coming up in the next year or two, so nothing gets missed between visits.

5

"How is my blood pressure, and what does that number mean for me?"

Elevated blood pressure can be an early warning sign of heart disease, kidney disease, or stroke, and it often has no symptoms at all. Don't just nod when the nurse reads off a number, ask what it means for you specifically, whether it's changed since your last visit, and what target range your doctor wants you in.

6

"What lifestyle changes would actually make a difference for me?"

You probably already have a hunch about the answer, whether it's moving more, sleeping better, or cutting back on something. Asking the question out loud and hearing your doctor confirm it can be surprisingly motivating. It also opens the door to more specific advice, such as how much activity is realistic and safe for your current fitness level.

7

"Are my supplements or over-the-counter products interfering with anything?"

Vitamins, herbal supplements, and common over-the-counter drugs can interact with prescription medications in ways that aren't always obvious. What seems harmless, like a daily fish oil capsule or an allergy pill, can sometimes affect how well a prescription works. Always check before starting anything new, and mention what you're already taking at every visit.

8

"What symptoms should send me to urgent care or the ER instead of waiting for my next appointment?"

It's not always clear when something is a minor issue versus a genuine emergency. Ask your doctor to help you understand the specific warning signs, related to your particular health conditions, that mean you shouldn't wait it out until the next scheduled visit.

9

"Are there resources or support services that could help me manage my health day to day?"

Your doctor's office often has more to offer than what happens during the appointment itself, including referrals to community programs, support groups, transportation assistance, or care coordination resources. Many people don't realize these exist simply because they never ask.

10

"Can you explain that in simpler terms?"

Medical language is genuinely hard to follow, even for people who are otherwise sharp as a tack. If your doctor uses a term or explains something in a way that doesn't fully click, say so. Try repeating the explanation back in your own words to confirm you understood it correctly. This one small habit prevents more confusion, missed instructions, and follow up calls than almost anything else on this list.

Make the Most of a Short Appointment

Checkups move fast, so a little preparation goes a long way. Consider these habits before your next visit:

Write your questions down in the order that matters most to you, and ask the most important ones first.

Bring an actual bag of medications and supplements, not just a mental list.

Bring a family member or friend if you'd like a second set of ears, especially for a visit covering a lot of ground.

Take notes or ask if you can record the summary, so instructions don't get lost on the drive home.

Mention changes in appetite, sleep, mood, or energy, even if they seem unrelated to why you scheduled the visit.

A checkup works best as a two way conversation, not a one way exam.

The more clearly you show up with your concerns, the more your doctor can actually help you stay independent, active, and well for years to come.

References

  • National Institute on Aging, National Institutes of Health. Talking With Your Doctor Worksheets
  • National Institute on Aging, National Institutes of Health. How To Prepare for a Doctor's Appointment
  • National Institute on Aging, National Institutes of Health. What Do I Need to Tell the Doctor?
  • Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Older Adult Fall Prevention
  • WebMD. What to Expect at Your Annual Checkup as a Senior
  • Novant Health, Healthy Headlines. Questions to Ask Your Doctor at 65 and Older

Disclaimer: This article is provided for general informational and educational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease or health condition, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical consultation, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or another qualified healthcare provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition, medication, or treatment, and never disregard professional medical advice or delay seeking it because of something you have read here. Reliance on any information provided in this article is solely at your own risk.

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David G. Reis, MD

Your Realtor Matchmaker · Licensed Real Estate Salesperson & Cardiologist · eXp Commercial Referral Division

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